What is your Sexpertise?
Let’s start with the basics: What is sex? There are five types of sex, classified by the type of genital contact involved between partners:
- Vaginal penetration
- Anal penetration
- Oral (mouth) contact with a partner’s genitals
- Manual/Digital (hands/fingers) contact with a partner’s genitals
- Skin-to-skin contact with a partner’s genitals
Some of today’s teens are engaging in oral, anal and/or skin-to-skin contact, with the belief that “it’s not really sex.” Be clear with your teen that each of these actually is a type of sexual intercourse, and each requires protection against sexually transmitted infections (STIs) and/or the possibility of pregnancy.
What is abstinence? It’s making a conscious decision to NOT have sex. People make this decision at different times in their lives, and for different reasons. For many, it’s the knowledge that participating in any type of sexual activity means taking some big risks, including getting an STI and/or becoming pregnant. Abstinence is the most effective way to prevent STIs and pregnancy. Birth control and condoms are also effective ways to prevent STI and pregnancy.
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